Quiz: Are You an 'Energizer' or a 'De-Energizer' at Work?

I was reading Cross and Perker’s The Hidden Power of Social Networks: Understanding How Work Really Gets Done in Organizations, and I was riveted by their discussion of energy. This caught my eye, because my father is always emphasizing the importance of energy, whether at work or at play — especially at work.

Cross and Parker argue that energy is a key factor in understanding who is effective at work, and why. When they analyzed networks of co-workers, knowing whether someone was considered an “energizer” and a “de-energizer” shed a great deal of light on how networks worked, and how productive various people managed to be. Their discussion is complex, but here are some highlights.

About energizers:

  • Those who energized others are much higher performers
  • Energizers are more likely to be heard and to see their ideas acted upon
  • People are more willing to engage with energizers: to give them undivided attention, to devote discretionary time to them, to respond to them, and to want to work with them
  • Energizers are quick to point out potential problems, but always in service of reaching a goal
  • Energizers listen to others and value others’ ideas, concerns, and contributions
  • Energizers don’t posture or conspire in alliances or cliques
  • Energizers articulate a compelling vision, but not one so grand that it feels frustratingly out of reach
  • Energizers show integrity: they follow through on their promises, deliver bad news or point out problems when appropriate, and deal fairly with others
  • Key point: “Note that energizers are not entertainers, or even necessarily very charismatic or intense. Rather, they bring themselves fully into an interaction.” In a nutshell, energizers help move the ball forward.

About de-energizers:

  • People go to great lengths to avoid dealing with de-energizers
  • When bypassed, de-energerizers tend to persist in unhelpful responses; they feel ignored, so they behave in ways that make people avoid them all the more, instead of finding ways to engage constructively
  • De-energizers tend to see nothing but roadblocks
  • De-energizers, especially those with great expertise, tend to shut out others’ views

So, are you an energizer or a de-energizer? I love quizzes to help me know myself better. Here are eight questions, adapted from Cross and Parker:

1. Do you take a sincere interest in other people?

2. Do you follow through on your commitments?

3. Do you engage in self-serving machinations, or do you work in service of a goal larger than yourself?

4. Do you see possibilities, or only problems?

5. Are you able to disagree with someone without attacking that person personally? (Note: excessive agreement is also de-energizing.)

6. Do you give people your full attention? It turns out people are far more aware of a lack of attentiveness than you might think.

7. Are you flexible enough in your methods so that others can contribute, or do you demand that others adapt to you?

8. Do you exercise your expertise without bulldozing over other people?

What do you think? Does this category of “energy” make sense in terms of your own work experience? For me, it rings absolutely true. And I completely agree that a person can be very soft-spoken and languid in behavior, and yet terrifically energizing, because of the contribution that person is making toward reaching a goal.

If you want to read more about "energy," check out The Happiness Project, chapter two.

Are you reading Happier at Home or The Happiness Project in a book group? Email me if you'd like the one-page discussion guide. Or if you're reading it in a spirituality book club, a Bible study group, or the like, email me for the spirituality one-page discussion guide.

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Mustafa Okay

United Payment Deputy Executive Director&Advisory of the Managing Board

10y

"If you can't measure sometking, you can't understand it. If you can't understand it, you can't control it. If you can't control it, you can't improve it." (Harrington and McNellis 2006). Any way, we should use our energy in the right manner.

Rani Batra

Strategic Marketing and Innovation Professional

10y

Or put another way, "Are you a Tigger or an Eeyore"? I am sure I have a bit of both in me, but try to lean into my inner Tigger when I'm especially frustrated, because it can help me and my colleagues uncover a fresh solution to a problem.

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Natalie G.

Human Resource Leader

10y

Great post and valuable information!

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Susanna Fox-Biretta

Associate Preschool Teacher, Chippewa Valley School District

10y

Love the post Gretchen and agree with it 100%. Reflection on such matters is needed for all. I would like to add that some are natural born energizers. Others could become so if difficult conditions within an organization improved. For example, I know someone who works for a large corporation. As with many corporations, the work load is tremendous. This guy is an energizer and really smart to boot. Because the employees can never get on top of the workload, they are burned out. Creativity slumps. Eventually the energizer transfers so much energy out to others, his reserve becomes empty and can effect his life in many ways. To summarize, upper management must also take accountability for workplace happiness. While integrity is a inner value, respect, energy ect.. begin at the top of the chain. Whatever is at the top will filter its way down to the intellectual capital and influence it in some way.

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Kathi E. Gonzales

Real Estate Consultant/Property / Project Manager/Estate/House Manager/ Events Coordinator

10y

Gretchen, Thank you for the information you have posted regarding being an Energizer or to de-energize. I enjoyed the comments from everyone. Amazing all the different opinions people have about the subject. I keep an open mind about people I meet. I'm an energizer of course!

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