Interviewer Etiquette - The other side of the table

A lot has been said and written about how a candidate should dress, groom, speak, behave, non-verbally communicate, answer the questions at an interview. While most of these suggestions are taken seriously and often followed, it brings me to wonder about the lack of such suggestions for the interviewer. After all, an interview is a two way process.

Consider then this anecdote shared with me by a very good friend:

"When I received a call for an interview at the firm’s residential guest house rather than the corporate office, I had to wonder whether I would be subjected to a “casting couch” of sorts. Considering the person interviewing me was the Sales Head of one of the largest IT firms in India, I gave him the benefit of being impossibly busy. Being the professional I’d like myself to be projected as, I landed at the address, dressed impeccably in suit and tie, even though it was the end of a long grueling day.

When I reached the place, I was asked to wait for exactly 27 minutes. If I were in an office, I would have asked to be announced again. However the caretaker of the guesthouse had already done so… twice! As I was just about to leave a note, I was greeted by an unshaven man, dressed in a loose T-Shirt and Bermuda shorts, holding a copy of my resume. I was informed that the original person, the erstwhile Sales Head was unable to make it to the meeting and this person, another Sales Head at par with the original interviewer in the corporate hierarchy, would now be conducting my interview.

What followed was perhaps the worst interview of my life. Rather than discuss my strengths and weaknesses as suited to the role, this person started off a diatribe about various competitors and industry individuals. That, using some of the most colorful language I had heard. He spoke about people in the industry who I worked with and had learnt a lot from. After about 10 minutes into the “knowledge session”, I excused myself and called the interview to a close, when I realized that this individual would be a regular contact during my workday, if I chose to join the organization."

While I listened to my friend, I realised that this is not some obscure firm operating out of a small town in India. This is one of India’s biggest IT powerhouses, held as a shining example of professionalism. And I could not help but wonder:

  1. What kind of impression did my friend now carry about this organization?
  2. What would be his feedback to his circle, should someone ask him for his opinion about this firm?
  3. In the future, if my friend had to make a decision about business deals with the firm, how could it be anything but negative?
  4. For a third party listener like myself, what is my impression about this firm and its care for its brand?

Probably this is a stray incident and it might be an exception rather than the norm. However, this was a senior level position my friend was interviewing for. There would have been some ways the whole incident could have been managed:

  1. Common courtesy on both sides: The original interviewer could have been courteous enough to call and let my friend know directly that he would be late or unable to make it to the meeting.
  2. Never delegate an interview: Reschedule the meeting rather than allow the meeting be conducted by a proxy who obviously had no clue about the position being hired for, much less the skills needed for interviewing.
  3. Ensure the meeting is always formal: Treating an interview casually like a chore to be "ticked off the To Do list” just leaves a bad impression on the candidate.
  4. Remember it is a marketing event: The axiom goes “A good customer tells three, a bad customer tells nine”. This holds true for partners, vendors and potential employees.
  5. Protect your brand value: Marketing can build a brand only so far. It is the “moments of truth” that actually build the brand. You are "selling" your organization as much as the candidate is "selling: his candidature to you.

Just like hiring managers would not hire an unprofessional, shabbily dressed, ill mannered and casual candidate, the same holds true for candidates. In today’s day and age, where the average employee lifespan is 18 months, it is important that employers extend the same professionalism that they expect from their candidates, not just in the work life once they’re hired, but from every “moment of truth” that they have with the candidate.

Duhita Dharwadkar

Founder at Silverfir Consulting

8y

Very insightful! In todays age of consumerism, where almost the entire focus is on the end consumer / customer and ensuring positive "Moments of truth" for him/her, this article opens our eyes to one very important stakeholder in the organization chain - the potential candidate or the employee and how important it is to ensure the right Moments of Truth for this particular stakeholder that is the core to any kind of product/service delivery the organization operates in.

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Jennifer Henczel

Founder - Women in Podcasting Network

9y

I really like the 5 tips, and #4 is my favorite. I've never seen it written quite that way, and I especially like it: “A good customer tells three, a bad customer tells nine”. That's a great insight.

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I agree with this statement. Too many time interviewers forget that the professionalism need to practice on both side

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Gwyneth Wesley Rolph

Doctoral Researcher/PT Visiting Lecturer - University of Westminster | Online Tutor/Module Author - University of London

9y

Bad interviewer etiquette: those who belittle your skills and/or experience, talk as if suitable people for the role are two a penny, behave as if you should be supremely grateful that you've even got to meet him because of his hectic schedule, act all cold and weird, interrupt with questions about experience that wasn't in the JD as if to purposely trip you up, act all superior, or generally insult your intelligence.

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Rahul Shariff

Digital Content Creator

9y

Excellent piece of advice for the interviewers. Inappropriate questions and abusive language also need to be avoided.

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