Big Idea 2013: Flexibility Without Shame

The US economic recovery is tepid at best, with growth in short supply. At the same time, progress on gender diversity has stalled, with the number of women in senior roles plateauing.

Solving the second challenge can help the first. Fully engaging women in the economy can increase GDP by as much as 9% ... but it will take some very different thinking.

It’s not for lack of trying. Companies have myriad diversity programs, diversity councils and diversity networking events to help women climb the career ladder. And there’s an entire industry built to exhort women on how to get ahead, with books on topics such as how to ask for a raise (not too hard and not too soft, lest one risk making the boss feel defensive).

But perhaps we’re trying to solve the wrong problem.

Working women who choose to have children are breaking into two broad groups: one works full-time, holding on, exhausted, through their children’s younger years. A full 60% (!) of these moms wish they had a flexible work option. And the other group – 5.4 million of them – steps out of the workforce during those years ... and pays the economic price. On trying to re-enter, 73% report trouble finding a job; and those who successfully do so suffer precipitous drops in income.

It’s time for smart companies to stop staring past the data and recognize a simple truth. Raising children, taking care of the home, working full-time – and, yes, fighting any vestiges of subtle discrimination – is exhausting. (See my LinkedIn post, “Let’s Admit It: Women are Different From Men” that walks through how even just 15 minutes a day of “hair and make-up” time adds up to more than one workweek a year. !!!) No amount of “how to ask for a raise” coaching gets past the issue that, in our society, women still do twice the housework and three times the childcare of men – and just saying this should be more equitable hasn’t made it so.

Thus, to make meaningful progress, smart companies will build cultures and career paths that go beyond today’s flexibility approaches: they will enable true “flexibility without shame.” (And don’t say this already exists: if it did, we wouldn’t have 60% of working moms wishing for it.) Smart companies will allow movement among different workstyles during the course of a career without implicitly penalizing individuals for their choices, as so often happens today. They will recognize that technology enables flexibility, productivity and team formation in ways not previously possible. They will recognize that engaging stay-at-home parents professionally for as little as one day a month will enable them to transition back to the workforce full-time seamlessly – and gain their gratitude for doing so. They will recognize that having employees fully engaged in part-time work can be better than their being distractedly engaged in full-time work (or, of course, opting out completely). They will recognize that women may work flexibly during parts of their careers, but that their longer, healthier lifespans will enable them to stay engaged for many years longer than men.

And, most of all, smart companies will recognize that really embracing “flexibility without shame” is a smart long-term investment. In turn, this will enable them to access a highly credentialed workforce ... allowing their competitors to host one more diversity cocktail party, hoping for a different result.

Crissie Luckey

Owner | Ms. Luckey Writer WordSmith

9y

Right on, Sallie! You hit several nails hard on the head in this great post. First, just as you stated, it's high time for employers to acknowledge and celebrate the sanctity of womanhood in ALL it's glory. That means without disregard for its "less attractive" inconvenient parts like - MOTHERHOOD. After all, how would any male corporate exec current exist without a Mom somewhere in his own background, huh? <DUH!> But that never seems to dawn on many of these male chauvanistic dufuses. Likewise, it never ceases to amaze me how the same self-styled 'eCommerce gurus' overlook such obvious other benefits of that same technology that provides their own lucrative livelihoods. Indeed, if they just opened their eyes a little wider and got a bit wiser to reality, they'd probably be amazed at how badly they've cheated themselves out of with purposeful blindness to unstoppable emergent telecommuting trends in today's society.

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Travis Flack

Leader of Training & Development at Twin City Garage Door

10y

This article hits on several important points but, for me personally at least, it further divides men and women in the work force. I am a single parent, with full custody, I also am a man. While I fully understand that my situation is not the "norm" or even all that common, I know I am not nearly alone. You mention "single parents" one time in this article. The other points are directed solely at women. I'll continue to support equality and will continue to read articles such as this in hope that we do make progress. Hopefully more author's will take note that these issues may perhaps not just be for women. If I had similar options to what you are detailing, my quality of life, and more importantly, the quality of life of my daughter's would be significantly better and much less stressful. In short, I will continue to hope for better and will support the cause, but let's not forget, there are single fathers out there too. Thank you Sallie Krawcheck.

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Pete Sehgal

Founder & CEO at Irriland Corporation

11y

Working moms have been a admirable national resource not just for their vital contributions to business and economy, but for their personal and professional sacrifices. However, if a woman has to juggle between family duties and work, just to afford health insurance and to make the ends meet, the family model is highly stressed. The consequences of these stresses are becoming more apparent in today's society with dysfunctional families(due to higher divorce rates) experiencing lack of quality time and inadequate skills for kids' nurturing. This challenge also requires personal and professional flexibility without shame!

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